Hello,
My name is Amandine, I am french, 27 and my boyfriend is Punjabi, 32 years old. He lives is USA. I am sorry if the story is long but I need some help of hindi people to understand and feel better. Please.
So we were together for 2,5 years. We had a long distance (France-USA) relationship for 1,5 years. I was flying every month to see him and was talking everyday to the webcam and emailing. We had a wonderful love story, full of passion, sharing the same values for the future and regarding the family. I am very tolerant about his religion and accept everything.
Anyway, I moved from France 1 year ago to live with him and his family was against this kind of commitment (I mean his mother). He fight with them and then they were forced to accept me. I met with them last Xmas and they accepted me like their daughters (gifts, nice talks...). They we see each other in May, no problem. And with my boyfriend Anil, everything was perfect except some stress and tireness b/c of visa issue. Anyway, we went in France for one week to visit my parents and since we came back, I was unable to call her mum (Canada), she was always busy, not responding to the phone and his dad/brother were always saying she cannot talk now... and on the other side, Anil was fighting with her on the phone. During 15 days in Punjabi but he always said to me he didn't want to talk about this.
Last July, he said he wanted to brake up with me due to problems we will have later (the way I manage the stress). Stupid reason. I of course tried to save our couple for 1,5 month and then I left and moved back to France this week. And he asked one of his friend to tell me it was b/c of his parents... He didn't have the courage to tell me that in front of me and let me believe something else. What a torture and a sadness. We are such in love with each other. He was crying before I leave. He is so wonderful. I think it is sad that his parents don't let him choose his patner and let him decide about his life.
My question is: Do you think he can come back on his decision? Have you already lived such a story? Is there anything I can do? Do you think his mother can change his mind. It is already the second time something like that happen. He was engaged before and the same problem happened. Do you think he will realize that he may have done a mistake? For info, he really doesn't want to be with an indian girl and his mother wants the contrary. Please, what should I do? Should I continue my life here and let him time? Should I expect a change? I am so sad. Please.
Thanks, Pari and hugs.
Amandine
My name is Amandine, I am french, 27 and my boyfriend is Punjabi, 32 years old. He lives is USA. I am sorry if the story is long but I need some help of hindi people to understand and feel better. Please.
So we were together for 2,5 years. We had a long distance (France-USA) relationship for 1,5 years. I was flying every month to see him and was talking everyday to the webcam and emailing. We had a wonderful love story, full of passion, sharing the same values for the future and regarding the family. I am very tolerant about his religion and accept everything.
Anyway, I moved from France 1 year ago to live with him and his family was against this kind of commitment (I mean his mother). He fight with them and then they were forced to accept me. I met with them last Xmas and they accepted me like their daughters (gifts, nice talks...). They we see each other in May, no problem. And with my boyfriend Anil, everything was perfect except some stress and tireness b/c of visa issue. Anyway, we went in France for one week to visit my parents and since we came back, I was unable to call her mum (Canada), she was always busy, not responding to the phone and his dad/brother were always saying she cannot talk now... and on the other side, Anil was fighting with her on the phone. During 15 days in Punjabi but he always said to me he didn't want to talk about this.
Last July, he said he wanted to brake up with me due to problems we will have later (the way I manage the stress). Stupid reason. I of course tried to save our couple for 1,5 month and then I left and moved back to France this week. And he asked one of his friend to tell me it was b/c of his parents... He didn't have the courage to tell me that in front of me and let me believe something else. What a torture and a sadness. We are such in love with each other. He was crying before I leave. He is so wonderful. I think it is sad that his parents don't let him choose his patner and let him decide about his life.
My question is: Do you think he can come back on his decision? Have you already lived such a story? Is there anything I can do? Do you think his mother can change his mind. It is already the second time something like that happen. He was engaged before and the same problem happened. Do you think he will realize that he may have done a mistake? For info, he really doesn't want to be with an indian girl and his mother wants the contrary. Please, what should I do? Should I continue my life here and let him time? Should I expect a change? I am so sad. Please.
Thanks, Pari and hugs.
Amandine
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