hi..
In a nutshell, my case is a extreme of misunderstanding.. two months back it startd with a very silly stuff.. and now it has lead to separation..
i am a short tempered person.. i got angry because she did something which I did not like.. i tried to speak up the issue.. did not get good response from her.. i wrote some mails dscribing the facts.. i got all negative replies.. then i concluded that she did not love me.. returned her stuffs which were with me.. cleared the accounts etc.. between contacted her close friends and tried to convinced them.. all these backfired and they concluded me as a dumb rude person..
after one month.. i decided to try once more.. coz i was finding it difficult to live without her.. the reply was something like this:
"i don't think that if we continue to chat like this, i won't be able to control myself. don't mind if i avoid you."
this was her last mail.
after that i sent few mails to her.. but no reply.. then i tried to contact her brother (whom i have met once).. first he showed some willingness to help me in resolving the issues.. but with time he lost energy.. at last he told that she wont come back.. i am not sure whether he told that after discussion with her sis or not..
can u plz tell:
1. what does the meaning of the mail?
2. should i do something more to bringher back.
3. if yes, can u plz suggest something...
please feel free to ask any question..
In a nutshell, my case is a extreme of misunderstanding.. two months back it startd with a very silly stuff.. and now it has lead to separation..
i am a short tempered person.. i got angry because she did something which I did not like.. i tried to speak up the issue.. did not get good response from her.. i wrote some mails dscribing the facts.. i got all negative replies.. then i concluded that she did not love me.. returned her stuffs which were with me.. cleared the accounts etc.. between contacted her close friends and tried to convinced them.. all these backfired and they concluded me as a dumb rude person..
after one month.. i decided to try once more.. coz i was finding it difficult to live without her.. the reply was something like this:
"i don't think that if we continue to chat like this, i won't be able to control myself. don't mind if i avoid you."
this was her last mail.
after that i sent few mails to her.. but no reply.. then i tried to contact her brother (whom i have met once).. first he showed some willingness to help me in resolving the issues.. but with time he lost energy.. at last he told that she wont come back.. i am not sure whether he told that after discussion with her sis or not..
can u plz tell:
1. what does the meaning of the mail?
2. should i do something more to bringher back.
3. if yes, can u plz suggest something...
please feel free to ask any question..
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