Hi,
I'm tensed for last couple of months & don't know what to do. Reason for my tension is, Right now we're in Canada, been here for couple of years, This was my hubby decision to come to Canada & settle down here. But now I don't know for last couple of months (around 9 mths), he is become more religious, spend most of his time in meditation, reading religious books etc, we're satsangi's & now he wants to go back to India & spend his rest of the life in Bhakti(devotion), meditation & Seeva ( his Service).
But I don't want to go to India back, he just wants to earn basic there & spend rest of the time in devotion(satsang). I spoke to him but no use. Now what u should think I have to do, I have some options or let me know other options
1) I'm working lady, earn so so money for basic life. Do I have to stay here??? But the think is I really love my hubby so much & I can't think to live without him & another thing nobody is here, my family is in back India.
2) Go with him but then there life will be hell for me & the whole life I'll feel that I did wrong decision.
3) Or stay here sometime & afterwards if I feel to go back to India then will join him.
Thing is his background (I mean financially) is not very strong. I am honest & always supportive to him. & coming to Canada was his decision, although I was not want to come that time. But now he doesn't want to understand my feelings. We have no kids yet. Plz Help me. I'm very tensed, I need ur honest opinion.
Eagerly waiting for ur response
I'm tensed for last couple of months & don't know what to do. Reason for my tension is, Right now we're in Canada, been here for couple of years, This was my hubby decision to come to Canada & settle down here. But now I don't know for last couple of months (around 9 mths), he is become more religious, spend most of his time in meditation, reading religious books etc, we're satsangi's & now he wants to go back to India & spend his rest of the life in Bhakti(devotion), meditation & Seeva ( his Service).
But I don't want to go to India back, he just wants to earn basic there & spend rest of the time in devotion(satsang). I spoke to him but no use. Now what u should think I have to do, I have some options or let me know other options
1) I'm working lady, earn so so money for basic life. Do I have to stay here??? But the think is I really love my hubby so much & I can't think to live without him & another thing nobody is here, my family is in back India.
2) Go with him but then there life will be hell for me & the whole life I'll feel that I did wrong decision.
3) Or stay here sometime & afterwards if I feel to go back to India then will join him.
Thing is his background (I mean financially) is not very strong. I am honest & always supportive to him. & coming to Canada was his decision, although I was not want to come that time. But now he doesn't want to understand my feelings. We have no kids yet. Plz Help me. I'm very tensed, I need ur honest opinion.
Eagerly waiting for ur response
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