Friends I really have a big problem and i need your advice.
I am having a girlfriend for the last 4 years and we love each other very much. After one year we told about this to our parents and they accepted it. That time we were students, so they told that they'll fix marriage later. Before one month the great day arrived. Our parents sat together and talked and were going to fix it. But as the topic of money ( no dowry ) came into the talk, my girlfriends dad began querreling about silly silly things. This querreling went over to a fight with words between our parents and ended finally with no end. After that my parents went on informing about her family and got to know very bad things. So that he's a fraud and that he's not such a nice man as he shows of and etc. etc. .. Now both families are against this marriage. My parents are thinking that her family especially her dad will destroy me in the matter of money and that he's just behind our money. I really don't know what to do. On one side there is my girlfriend, whom i love very much, and on the other side there are my parents, whom i also love very much. I can't decide which way to choose. But one thing is sure. i will loose somebody, either my girlfriend or my parents. My parents are saying, if i marry without family there will be just temporary happiness. I know that they always wanted the best for me, but my girlfriend is also very nice
Dear friends, please help me in deciding
I am having a girlfriend for the last 4 years and we love each other very much. After one year we told about this to our parents and they accepted it. That time we were students, so they told that they'll fix marriage later. Before one month the great day arrived. Our parents sat together and talked and were going to fix it. But as the topic of money ( no dowry ) came into the talk, my girlfriends dad began querreling about silly silly things. This querreling went over to a fight with words between our parents and ended finally with no end. After that my parents went on informing about her family and got to know very bad things. So that he's a fraud and that he's not such a nice man as he shows of and etc. etc. .. Now both families are against this marriage. My parents are thinking that her family especially her dad will destroy me in the matter of money and that he's just behind our money. I really don't know what to do. On one side there is my girlfriend, whom i love very much, and on the other side there are my parents, whom i also love very much. I can't decide which way to choose. But one thing is sure. i will loose somebody, either my girlfriend or my parents. My parents are saying, if i marry without family there will be just temporary happiness. I know that they always wanted the best for me, but my girlfriend is also very nice
Dear friends, please help me in deciding
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